Friday, July 31, 2009

Valentines day gifts?

im sure your all pretty sick of these questions but ive looked the ones already asked and didnt see any choices that could really apply to me (being 17 and in hs im not spending much) or any that really stood out, flowers candy necklaces i coulda thought of that. so what are some unique ideas for valentines day, keep in mind i've only been with her for 7 months and im not looking to spend more than like $75, sorry girls reading this, im not cheap but i dont really care what you think anyways so yeah, thanks for the help =)

Valentines day gifts?
Regardless as to what you get her, make sure it is not too big or expensive. The reason being (and please keep this bit of advise about women in the forefront of your mind from now until the day you die) once you go out of your way to do something for a woman, no matter how special or outrageously expensive, YOU WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO BACKTRACK AND DO ANYTHING LESS. The magnificent idea of this year will be the plain old status quo, of the next.


Answer this, is her birthday, or Christmas more important to her? If so, she is going to remember what she got for VD and use that as the gauge of the level for what she should CONTINUE to get from you when gifts are given.


This is why a lot of women begin to complain about how their "significant other" USE TO do special things for them, but doesn't seem to do as much now. From our side of the issue (MALE) we know that we had to go the extra mile to get them in the first place, and it is impossible to keep that pace up for the entire relationship, but they don't want to hear that.


So no matter what you decide, make sure to leave yourself some room to be able to top it next year, because if you are with her next year, I GUARANTEE, she will expect something better than what you did this year. And believe it or not, whether she tells you or not, she WILL be hurt if you don't live up to that unfair and unrealistic expectation, and she will hold it against you as an expression of you SHOWING her that she (or your relationship) is less important to you now versus what it used to be.


NEVER START SOMETHING IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU DON'T INTENT TO CONTINUE, YOU WILL REGRET IT LATER---SPREAD THE WORD!!!





P.S.- This goes for everyday activity also, never take her places with you that you are not willing to take her everytime you go, especially when hang with your friends. If you start this activity, you will never see a moment of privacy again. Pace your relationship, or it will pace you, WOMEN DO IT ALL TIME.





Good Luck!!!
Reply:Oh the classics always work. Try a teddybear that's soft and INCREDIBLY cute, preferably holding a basket of chocolate or something. Or stud earrings (they're shiny, so they'll work), the most those'll cost you is 25 bucks. Plus, they're small and elegant. Maybe include a poem about love from a good poet, or a song.
Reply:This is a very cheap gift and quite cute. I use these as little gift/stocking stuffer ideas all the time. Maybe a few of these with a bottle of perfume.





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Hope this helps.
Reply:Hmmm...let me put myself in the girl's shoes. Well, I wouldn't a like a teddy bear or anything of that sort that's expensive and I'll probably throw away...nice flowers, they don't have to be expensive but something nice, like 7 roses, one representing a month you've been together with some filling inside (baby's breath, smaller flowers that come in bunches), you MUST get her a card or make one but a card must be included, you can get her a movie she really really really really likes or something related to that movie (like if she likes let's say Star Wars, you can get her a shirt that says something related to star wars) or you can put the movie in a basket with bags of popcorn and candy so you guys can watch it together, DON'T FORGET THE CARD, no stuffed animals because most people trash those! Or like someone else said a gift certificate for a nail salon is nice, DON'T FORGET THE CARD! In the end, something simple that shows her you know her by doing something personal...good luck and happy valentine's day!
Reply:well its the thought that counts, you mentioned you've been together for 7 months, then you should give her something that has sentimental meaning, recreate your first date, or maybe if she mentioned that she always wanted to do something but never had the chance to do it try to make it happen, like if she said she always wanted to learn swing dancing, take a class together...you have to look for something that would move her, it doesnt have to be expensive.


good luck
Reply:well i have only been with my boyfriend for three months and i am pretty sure he got me a gorgeous necklace i have been wanting since christmas. but if jewelry isnt wut ur looking for y dont u do something romantic. pack a picnic take her to the beach and watch the sunset with her. maybe throw in a few roses. im sure that she will LOVE this... hope this helps :]
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Reply:gift certificate for a pedicure! Nothing like pretty toes!!



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