Friday, July 31, 2009

PLEASE ANSWER!!When giving gifts to a Girl as an apology, should you space them out, or give them all at once?

Read my previous questions for the story. I bought her flowers along with a card i wrote. I also bought like 5 items of jewelry and a couple shirts. Should i give her this all at once, or space it out through the week?

PLEASE ANSWER!!When giving gifts to a Girl as an apology, should you space them out, or give them all at once?
space them out ...to space her out!





Good luck.
Reply:DUDE!!!!!!!!! Just apologise!!!!!!!!!!! Tell her you are sorry, and then, tell her you bought these things while you were thinking about how much you need her. GOOD LUCK.


If she does'nt accept, than o-well!
Reply:I'm sorry, but she sounds like a hoe to me. I mean, why is she running around in a thong in front of another guy and what did she expect from you after such an incident. How did you find out it was all false, she told you, or lied to you? I'm sorry, but you did nothing wrong here, it was all just a misunderstanding if it was all in fact false and she should be willing to explain herself and not take offense seeing as she slept with another guy (romantically or not.) Come on man, man up a little bit and don't let people walk all over you like this.
Reply:There's a difference between an apology gift and guilt presents ~ you are very close to crossing the line!
Reply:Never give gifts to apologise. Don't do anything wrong in the first place that you need to apologise for. but one gesture of an apology is sufficient. if your giving more your desperate and sad.
Reply:space it out over the course of a week or two, otherwise it just makes you seem needy, and a little bit creepy
Reply:def space them out.... that way she'll slowly start to forgive you... it shows you're committed etc.
Reply:you should definantely space them out


maybe give her a different gift each day


or (whatever way u want)


and just tell her that you seen these items and thought about her





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Reply:omg, do u want to kill her. seriously one thing is enough. if u gave me all those things id be like piss of
Reply:Better give them all at once.that will really show her how sorry you are.She will be really touched by your thoughtfulness.You are a great man!
Reply:give one to her every day seems more romantic and oh ya she wont beg for more jk
Reply:space them out to feel out her feelings .besides its more fun and she may keep you longer by waiting for the next present and end off liking you !!@!!! don't keep her waiting to long because she''ll 'then known you didn't mean it.
Reply:Go ahead and cut your balls off, it's too late for you.
Reply:Depends on what you did wrong. But as a general rule, space them out. Surprise her by putting one in her purse when she's not looking, and she'll find it when she gets home, or leave a gift on her pillow for her to find when you go, that kind of thing. It'll show her you're thinking of her all the time, not just in one rush of emotion. Does this help?
Reply:Space it,if you give them all at once she will thinking your really sucking up and most girls hate when you do something bad and try to make up for it,you should give each one every couple of days,and if she asks what it was for,just reply,just because i was thinking about you and i wanted to show how much i truly care and love you.and thats when you give her a little kiss on her forehead.You cant go wrong with this.
Reply:Silly boy... you cant buy her back.... you need to prove youre sorry. later when she forgives you, thats when you buy the gifts to say thank you..
Reply:u must give it all in 1day but at intervals..if u keep poppin ur head into her door everyday and give her sumthin,im sure shell get bugged up..
Reply:Take them back. An explanation and a sincere apology face to face not in just text should be enough. If the only thing she cares about is "stuff" you don't want this kind of person. It's just you she should want.
Reply:She may find it a tad creepy if you give her gifts - but if you really are in love with her, I think you should give them to her spaced out. Keep in mind that she may reject them.
Reply:must be a pretty big apology your making! just give her a couple of gifts first.. like the card and flowers, and save the other gifts for her b'day or other special occasions.. otherwise i think she'd be overwhelmed recieving them all at once.
Reply:give them at once
Reply:be very careful how many and how often you give them. dont look like a wuss by doing so, as much as women on here will tell you otherwise, women in general dont like it when theyre showered with gifts because it shows that the man isnt confident enough in himself that he is the gift himself
Reply:Give her the flower, card and jwellery first. Check her mood the next day and depending on that decide on shirts.



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