Boyfriend did nothing for valentine's day?

No card, flowers, gift nothing. I gave him a lovely personalized gift to him, I am a nice girlfriend why did he forget me.

Boyfriend did nothing for valentine's day?
Tell him that your'e bummed that you two missed the opportunity to have some special time together for Valentine's day and that you would like both of you to do something special for each other this coming weekend.





(This way he won't feel like you have your hand out, selfishly expecting him to throw down cash for you to celebrate a cheesy commercialized holiday.)





You cannot hint around with guys. They have to be told very directly what you expect and the sooner we ladies learn this the better off we will be! ;-) lol (It's true, though!!!!)
Reply:well maybe hes tryin 2 surprise u w/ a better gift but he wanted 2 skip it on vday so u would like it more or maybe he was just busy or possibly he 4got: i nvr even KNO its Vday unless some1 tells me ON vday
Reply:Lack of communication? did you forget to tell him that you wanted to exchange gifts?





Lack of caring? does he know he's your valentine? or does he want to be?





Lack of cash? is he working? or have other obligations for his cash?





Lack of class? maybe he don't care if you get anything as long as he does?





If this is your first Valentine's day.. I bet its your last.. unless you get a lot of answers... Keep the Faith.. it could be worse.. you could be married to him..!
Reply:This mean one Thing! and thats hurting..........your are not his type of gill....? Sorry to say that! But this true. If he love you,her would had responed or even acted... before you.Stop wasting time on him.
Reply:Looks like he can't keep up with the Jone's.


Dump him along with those worthless personalized gifts.


Don't take any of the above advice i just need 2 points. Better luck next year.
Reply:the guy doesn't love you.. i have a close friend that is like that.. even their monthsaries/anniv.. no gifts, no greetings, no anything from the guy.. they always fight.. but they are still together after more than a year.. and i don't like the guy.. i hate him.. let go of him.. u deserve other person that can love you more than he should give you.. u deserve to be happy.. he's nothing.. gudluck..
Reply:you don't give us very much to go on.





i wouldn't mind if you would indulge me and read the love chapter in the holy bible. you'll find it by leafing to 1st Corinthians the entire chapter thirteen.





there has been times when i've done and said things along the same lines as you only to find, a little later, how mistaken i was. not a nice feeling.





the Beatles said it the best "all we are saying is give peace a chance".
Reply:Don't say anything (at least for a couple of days) if you can help it. It's possible that he was low on cash, time or ideas.





There is always the possibility that he isn't worthy of you.


You didn't say how long you have dated, and maybe he thought that relationship wasn't that serious. I wish I could better answer your question, but you didn't give many details.


No matter what way it goes, keep in mind that you did what made you feel best by giving. I think that's the best part.
Reply:did he tell you happy v day?? or did he say thank you?
Reply:Maybe HoneyBunch is right, or maybe Valentine's just aren't his thing. Many people believe Valentine's is too commercial for their type of love, so that may be the case for him.
Reply:just wait and see he may be having a surprise gift for you.
Reply:he could be joking arounxd and mybe he'll get a biiiig surpride for you or have a talk with him


OR


SPY ON HIM
Reply:you dont need him im sure your a gorgeous young


woman that can find another guy
Reply:Well, not all people celebrate Valentine's day, he might be one of those people.





But suffice to say, if his treatment for you still stay the same, it's a good thing.





If you want more nicer treatment from him, I suggest you discuss it with him.
Reply:There are a lot of guys out there who don't get how much gifts mean to us sentimental ladies. I know, I have one of them. He's a great guy and our relationship is great, but he's clueless about the importance of gifts.





You have to take a step back and look at the rest of your relationship. Talk to your friends about it. Don't push the idea that you got him such a great gift and find out what they think of your relationship with him.





If your friends think that he's just one of those clueless guys, there's probably some hope for him. If, on the other hand, they think that he's trying to tell you something, then take the initiative and be the dumper rather than the dumpee.





Wishing you the best!
Reply:There are many possibilities. He may have a bigger surprise for you or there might be an explanation to all this...maybe he had to attend something or he is busy that is why he did not call. Or just simply he will dump you soon...I'm sorry you felt bad on your special day for love...
Reply:Dump him, if he's not bringing you flowers at least once a month and taking you out somewhere just as a normal routine he don't care about you, dump him fast.
Reply:sorry to hear you havent got anything


my advice to you is to wait till later when you next see him see if he hasnt got you anything best thing to do is


communicate with him and ask him


dont go dumping him just yet there might be a good reason behind it and as other said he mite not believe in it as most couples out there thinks its just another scam of spending money!


also he mite be shy about it


or got no money


and if he treats you ok all the other times dont you think thats more important than one day that comes once a year?





COMMUNICATION is the best way!
Reply:It's ok. Don't be upset. Maybe he is so busy. How many time you have enjoy Valentine's Day with him?
Reply:Tell him how you feel. Tell him that it hurts you. Obviously, you've shown him how you think of V. Day as very special with your special gift. If he tells you that he didn't have much money, tell him that there are many inexpensive gifts (free ones too such as; back rubs, cooking a dinner for you, writing you a poem). It's about how you "feel" right? Remember, good communication equals good relationship!


If he says he's "just not into it", let him know that it sounds like "he's not into you".
Reply:well i hate to say it but he mit not have any money or maybe he dont like ventines day
Reply:Well, there are certainly a lot of materialistic women/girls on here who say just because he didn't get anything means he doesn't care. I am married to a man who just doesn't see the point in "wasting" our money on things like candy, chocolate, flowers, etc. but I know that he loves me more than those things can express. Once I figured out that the gift thing just isn't his thing, I stopped worrying so much about getting him things. It's kind of relaxing not to have to find the "perfect" gift and instead to show him how much I love him through the rest of the year. And then we can save our money for the things we truly want (I.E. more expensive things) later on. We usually get each other a gift for like $200-$400 that is a combined b-day, Mother's Day, Valentine's Day, etc. gift and skip the cheesy pieces of junk that just take up room the rest of the year. I mean, after a while, how many teddy bears or whatever do you really need to take up room??? Maybe he just thinks like this.
Reply:Dump him



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