Do you think gift/flower giving on a first date is a no-win situation? See below.?

If you don%26#039;t give a gift/flowers, you%26#039;re a cheapskate, if you do, you%26#039;re kissing butt. What to do?

Do you think gift/flower giving on a first date is a no-win situation? See below.?
I don%26#039;t think of it as kissing @ss - I see it more as %26quot;If nothing else, at least you will have something beautiful to take home with you.%26quot;





My %26quot;thing%26quot; is a single long-stemmed red rose - classic (and classy), but not too overbearing. An elaborate setup is for a wedding or a funeral ;););)
Reply:I dont think it makes you cheap or a kissup. I just think its sweet =]
Reply:ONLY GET A GIFT IF YOU THINK IT WILL GET YOU SOMEWHERE, IF NOT YOU ARE WASTING YOUR MONEY AS WELL AS YOUR TIME.
Reply:I think kissing butt or not, everyone appreciates a gift. It lets them know you think they are special. Old fashioned courtesy and chivalry are not dead.
Reply:I think in today%26#039;s society most women do not expect either on the first date. If a guy brings one or the other she is going to think that was so sweet and probably brag to all her friends about it because they probably don%26#039;t get that. But as for you kissing a$$ or lame that is all up to you. She is going to think of you what she wants depending on the rest of the date not the gift.
Reply:Flowers who does that now and days. If you do give flowers they are only going to die within a few days. Gift, you are the gift. Taking them out on a date is a gift. It does not mean you are a cheapskate unless that person is a gold digger. Also who kisses *** when you have some people giving it away so easily. Sad. Right?
Reply:date the right kind of men
Reply:i have to say i dont care it i get a gift/flower or not. its nice to get one and know they were thinking of u but i think it would be more appciated on a 3 or 4 date after u know what the person would really like



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