Ladies, do you ever feel a GUT LEVEL attraction for guys who constantly kiss up to you and act like wussies?

I recently got out of a long relationship and am trying to be successful with women. Without going into too much detail I believe success with women is derived from being good at social skills in general. I also believe a calm, confident, relaxed man that knows how to handle himself and is comfortable in his own skin is more attractive than a guy who wants to buy a womans affection via dinners, flowers, gifts, and so on. So I%26#039;m mostly just looking for answers from good looking women about their experiences with this topic. Thanks.

Ladies, do you ever feel a GUT LEVEL attraction for guys who constantly kiss up to you and act like wussies?
Wussies? People have said I%26#039;ve dated wussies but, the truth is, I like my men submissive and cooperative, LOL! There%26#039;s no need for them to buy me things, they just have to do what I say. %26lt;smiile%26gt;
Reply:1st of all ... if you do the whole cocky and funny routine you have to mix a little wussie in there in order for her not to get fed up and leave you .... we like going out ... yes we do especially if we get to spend hours getting ready


gifts .. we like simple things like spa gift certificates ..cute stuff thoughtfull things maybe once a month


flowers are nice ... not everyday but its nice to have a surprise bunch of flowers waitig for you at work it shows that someone cares ... and is just a nice gesture that puts smiles on our faces ...
Reply:first of all, never ask a woman for dating advice (no offense)





%26quot;I believe success with women is derived from being good at social skills in general.%26quot;





Not a bad assessment at all. It comes from being a success in life in general. You can have all the social skills in the world but if you are overweight, don%26#039;t have a job or a place stay, the social skills will only get you so far. however at the same time, you can have all thoose things and be a hermit and it wouldn%26#039;t matter.





%26quot;So I%26#039;m mostly just looking for answers from good looking women about their experiences with this topic%26quot;





that%26#039;s the problem right here. Another thing is, a woman looks at hte way you treat people who can%26#039;t do anything for you. you just analienated alot of women. Women all think alike. A woman you consider to be unattractive gets hit on more than you EVER will.. trust me. I%26#039;m a good looking guy and have no problem getting dates in the least bit, but compared to the women I talk to it%26#039;s not even close. It%26#039;s like you go into this big rant about %26#039;i%26#039;m such a nice guy, I am the nicest guy on earth%26quot; then a woman who you don%26#039;t like comes up and asks you a question and you say %26quot;get out of my way fat woman%26quot; or something like that.





You have alot to learn.





-Backbreaker


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Reply:No...I just prefer guys who are themselves! I don%26#039;t like when people try to suck up to me. If they can%26#039;t communicate with me properly, I%26#039;d rather they didn%26#039;t bother.
Reply:yes, confidence is a big thing, but flowers and stuff NEVER hurt...everyone has their own love language (way that they feel/interpret love(d)) some prefer gifts, while some enjoy quality time, but we have to agree everyone loves a gift because it makes them feel appreciated
Reply:i agree.....but im not a women





and by that i mean im a teen


not the other thing



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