Some general questions for girls...?

Ok girls, I am a guy who is 23 and single and looking and there are a few questions I am hoping you can help me with.





1. When you and your female friends go out to a bar, are you typically accepting of a guy coming up to you and talking to you, or does that usually scare you or creep you out? I tend to get a negative response from girls when I try to talk to them at a bar or club, and I was just wondering.





2. What is the best way for a guy to appraoch you at a bar? Do certain things get your attention?





3. Why do most girls have a problem with a guy who likes to spoil and compliment them? I really enjoy giving flowers, gifts, and compliments to a girl I am dating, but most of them act offended when I do. WHY?!?





4. Can you tell me some of the signals you intentionally give off to a guy that you like? I thinka certain girl likes me, but I can%26#039;t tell for sure if she really does or if she%26#039;s just being friendly.





Any help would be appreciated, and please be honest. Thanks!

Some general questions for girls...?
1. assuming the guy doesn%26#039;t look like a loser or a freak, I am very accepting of a guy approaching. are you clean, well-groomed, well-dressed?


2. give us compliments, or start a conversation about something current (not politics/religion) or something else maybe that applies to where you are. If there%26#039;s a sports game on, ask if we are fans or something. offer to buy her a drink. wedding rings get our attention, so stay away if you have one hehe. girls notice your posture, looks,


and smile, and if you can make us laugh.


3. I don%26#039;t have any problem with any of the compliments, flowers, etc..but do not EVER whine or comment on how much it cost you to do said %26#039;nice%26#039; thing. And its probably better if you if you pay for meals--we like that :)


4. if we keep talking to a guy and don%26#039;t constantly look for our friends or look at our cell phones for an %26quot;out%26quot; things are prob going pretty well. Ask for our #%26#039;s, don%26#039;t give us yours (unless we ask for it bec we%26#039;re not gonna call you). You do the work to call us and be chivalrous.
Reply:Well it really depends in what planet you are living in.Us chicks like to go out in a group, just a girls night out.It is really nice when a guy does come up to us in a bar or club.If you end up getting rejected to much doing that, then the chicks you are approaching are to much of a stereotype.I cant speak for all of the chicks out there but you might find that some chicks like it when yous approach us (it bets us doing it, if we are to shy).





Best way to approach a chick is to ask them if they want to dance.Then thats one way of getting us by ourself and get to talk.


I dont know just be yourself !?!?





IOh and if you dont know if chicks like you, you will get alot of smiles, laughs at your jokes and maybe a few winks
Reply:Bars are the absolute worst places to meet someone that you want to have a long-term relationship with you. One-night stands, yes; long-term, no.





#3 blame the feminist movement on that one. Keep doing it though, eventually, you%26#039;ll meet a woman who appreciates the gifts and YOU.





Smiles at you, tosses her hair, flirts with her eyes.
Reply:okay....


1. If the guy is really cute and funny than it is usually okay if he comes up to a group of girls but a lot of times it is a turn off and the friends will laugh at him. I would suggest chatting them up when they are waiting at the bar for a drink without their friends. Better yet, try to meet girls somewhere other than bars. Usually girls are out at bars to hang with their friends.


2. A nice smile is usually the first thing a guy can do to get a girls attention.


3. Most girls are turned off by the super nice guy. It is sad but true. I think a guy who puts it all out there like that is not much of a challenge and a girl really likes a challenge!


4. I would say she would touch you while talking to you, lean in close to hear you when you talk and smile at you a lot.


You seem very sweet. Good luck!



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