Womans Gifts B Day Valentines Day women 30-35 only plz?

i have been dating this girl for a few weeks now and her bday is next week and v day is right after... she has been hurt by guys in the past shes a really great girl plz reccommend a b day and v day gift i dont wanna come on too strong since its so close together... i dont wanna scare her away... he have already hung out alot ...we have had some kissing and touching but no sex.. i sense she is and she has also admitted she still does not trust guys easy and very not confident that she is a very pretty girl even though i think shes very beautiful... as i stated she was hurt by guys in the past and just got out of an abusive relationship not long ago ... so im asking you ladies opinion... plz advise on what to get her and anything i can do to get her more trusting of me and become more confident





shes 30 turning 31 i am 27


b day first then v day


i was thinking flowers sent to her work on b day should i do same for v day except maybe teddybear and chocolates and then take her to dinner?

Womans Gifts B Day Valentines Day women 30-35 only plz?
Flowers are always nice...but depending your girl if you do the same thing for both dates you might seem uncreative (if the two date are the close) or worse yet stalkerish





here is my 2 cents :)





For her bday plan a super special her day...something like a couple%26#039;s day at a local spa http://www.spafinder.com/index.jsp





For VDay...a really nice night out on the town would be cool





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Reply:for her birthday you could make a %26quot;date%26quot; to go to dinner and a movie and bring her flowers when you pick her up.





Dont forget to get a really thoughtful birthday card.





for valentines day I think a different kind of flowers (maybe her favorite or just a really pretty boquet) small box of chocolates or even the little bear that holds the chocolates.
Reply:flowers to her work is always a good thing!


don%26#039;t waste your money on roses Just go with a big boquet of daisies or tell the florist anything but all roses.





I think dinner and a chocolate rose. for valentines .





You don%26#039;t tell much about her so it is hard to guess. Maybe a card to get her nails done at a local salon. Something to make her feel sexy without having to buy her jewelry or something. Teddy bear is a little lame. Usually by this age they are over those things and would rather you spend your money on something they could use.


small things like a picture keychain (cool digital ones now) are always nice. Especially if she has lots of family and friends. Something like this could bring you closer but not make it seem like you are trying too hard.
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Reply:sounds good to me, but you may want to wait and see how she responds to the first gift before moving forward.
Reply:Next time your out with her check out what sort of stuff she has, eg: what kind of bag she carries, women love handbags, maybe you could get her something designer, like a (Louis Vuitton expensive), (Fendi, Prada not that expensive) if you can afford it then maybe the flowers are a great suprise to send it to her work. Then for V-Day I wouldn%26#039;t go for the teddy bear she is 30 and it seems chilish, go for the dinner and buy her a small gift like a pair of erings, just check out what kind she usually wears,(if she wears any), studds are alwasy good, but something like a cubic zaconia put make sure it%26#039;s real solver/gold. ood luck.





As far as getting her to trust you, well that is gonna take time, maybe you could call her often and just be a sweet kind person and she will see that you are for real and not just like all the rest of the retards who broke her heart.
Reply:perfume, teddy bears, something cute and sweet


FLOWERS! bring them so her office


don%26#039;t go for chocolate, some girls think it%26#039;s because they%26#039;re too fat


crazy, i know but ya know lol
Reply:Ha-- well, my bday is next week as well.





Treat these as two separate events. Don%26#039;t merge them together.





%26quot;Coming on too strong%26quot; is a false fear. The only way you could do this is if you give her a small black ring box.





Surprise, surprise, surprise her. I%26#039;d go more all-out for her bday (it%26#039;s her special day; Valentine%26#039;s is like a required holiday). Take her to do several things she%26#039;s never done before and don%26#039;t tell her ahead of time what they are. Examples: carriage ride, dinner at a fabulous restaurant (where you must wear a tie) and don%26#039;t embarrass her with singing waiters, then how about tickets to a show or concert she might like? (Earlier in the day, you sent her a bouquet of flowers, of course.)





Now for Valentines, all the cheesy stuff is applicable. Have a dozen roses delivered, bring her a box of expensive chocolates (not the kind from Walgreens; the kind from a real chocolate store), take her to a romantic restaurant like the Melting Pot (make sure you make reservations NOW), and of course make her a special card.





And you need to forget about this %26quot;she%26#039;s been hurt in the past%26quot; business. Who hasn%26#039;t? Don%26#039;t act like you pity her or want to be the %26quot;good guy%26quot; she never had. She%26#039;s going to think you%26#039;re doing all this stuff just to feel good about yourself. If you ever talk about her past, STOP. It%26#039;s in the past.
Reply:why not a bottle of a very nice purfume for her b day and go out for tea.....and for v day flowers and chocys and teady bear?
Reply:Wow you sound like a really sweet guy.. This girl is lucky. Ok first off. To show her that you will not hurt her and that you are different than the rest of the guys.. The best thing you can do is just be there. Always be there but stand back a step so she can continue to heal from her abusive relationship that she just got out of.. The best thing to do is show her that you care and that you are very interested but that you are willing to wait and take your time to make sure she is ready. just like you have been doing.. The worst thing a guy can do when someone doesn%26#039;t trust guys easily or when they just got out of a bad relationship is pressure a girl.. Weather it%26#039;s for sex or a commitment.. It sounds like you have told her you care and that your going with the flow and that is perfect. Just be careful that you don%26#039;t fall into the friends slot..because once you become %26quot;just a friend%26quot; or a %26quot;good friend%26quot; it%26#039;s really hard to get it back to romantic...As for the confidence just look her in the eyes and tell her she is beautiful and she will begin to believe you. When someone thinks you are beautiful they can look at you and you can see it in their eyes.I think that Valentines day is a definite chocolate, teddy bear, and flowers type of day.. Sending them to her work is very sweet. And she will love it.. For her birthday I would do something a little more personal.. Being that the two holidays are very close and you haven%26#039;t been dating too long you shouldn%26#039;t over do it or you may scare her off.A gift certificate for a salon to get a massage, her nails, and/or her hair done would be nice. And the new haircut and nails or facial may really boost her confidence. Also if you know what she likes to do in her free time. A birthday present should be personal..A valentines day gift is for b/f g/f and lovers.Being that you haven%26#039;t been together that long, you shouldn%26#039;t go and get her diamond earrings or anything..If she is the type of girl that might like a tattoo or body piercing those are good ideas.. Good luck..



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