Annoying guy I work with keep bringing me gifts... I have been returning or not using his gifts?

he brought me flowers I left at food court table... and I told him I am not interested... he believes I am not going out with him cause I am Muslim and scared of my people... but the truth is I am in love with someone and don%26#039;t want risk losing the person I love... I don%26#039;t want to say anything about my relationship... because I am afraid he will let my family know... I been very mature and polite with him and have told him to please not waste his money... I just can’t accept his gifts... And I would appreciate if he respects my personal space... How to get through him I been very clear?

Annoying guy I work with keep bringing me gifts... I have been returning or not using his gifts?
Well this is difficult to say.. Since you have told him politely to leave you alone.. Your only chance is telling him that you are in a relationship.. You need not to say any names.. But just make it clear that you are unavailable.. If it does persit.. You have no other choice then telling someone.. family friends maybe the guy your with.. I wouldn%26#039;t try that route quite yet.. You don%26#039;t want to make this something huge if it%26#039;s something harmless right now.. But if it does get to the point I would really consider it.. Just tell him your flatered by his kindness but your in a relationship.. It%26#039;s your only hope to get him to stop.. And if he does tell your family.. Just tell them the story and tell them you thought that was the only excuse you could think of to get him to stop bothering you.. But you shouldn%26#039;t have to hide your relationship from your family.. I hope my little bit of advice helps...



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