Does anyone else agree not to waste expensive gifts on girls?

I%26#039;ve been warned by my folks not to waste expensive gifts on girls. I found a gold chain once on the street, and my Step dad right away told me not to give it to, %26quot;that girl%26quot;, one at the time who was really getting to me.


He was probably right, and minimized the damage, because I had already taken a record album over there once, and she or her brother either threw it away or gave it to someone.


Nothing frivolous like flowers that die in a day anyway.

Does anyone else agree not to waste expensive gifts on girls?
Not buying expensive gifts for someone you are dating is wise.





I%26#039;m not saying never give her a token of your affection, but birthdays and Christmas, you should try to get something she wants that%26#039;s not going to cost a fortune.





Agree not to give anniversary gifts. Instead, agree to spend the evening together, go out to eat, see a movie, have a special night. You could probably pay for your first child%26#039;s first year in pre-school with what that alone costs.





Put your money into savings. Keep your disposable income in your checking account.





Aim for the end result, when you really do find the woman you want to marry. Then you can invest in your future with that money.





You may want to make putting enough aside for a down payment on a house a goal.





Maintain your car, aim for the next promotion at work, further your education....even if you only take one online course.





Basically, aim for your end result, and keep as much as you can aside for when the time is right.





Step dad is a wise man.
Reply:come on! dont be like that.! it depends on the girl, don t you think? i agree with %26quot;Jesus is real%26quot;
Reply:Girls are like day and night, they come, and they go. Expensive gifts should be saved for the wife, not the date.
Reply:Don%26#039;t overdo it. Some women are just golddiggers. Get to know more about her and find out if she is true or not before you decide to give her anything. You could wind up regretting plenty if it doesn%26#039;t work out.
Reply:No, I don%26#039;t agree with you at all. That sounds so selfish. Both sexes should lavish one another with great gifts once in a while. Not all the time of course.
Reply:Indeed I do. they just take it for granite, givem a centimeter they take, and expect a kilometer. LOL
Reply:it is nice to give a gift to anyone .....you feel good and they feel good so where is the bad?


if they don%26#039;t appreciate it that is for them to deal with but does not effect your thoughtfulness.


if more people were as concerned about giving as they are about receiving ...this world would be a better place and war free.
Reply:i think it depends on how far in a relationship you are with her or if your trying to %26quot;win her heart%26quot;. i personally would love to get expensive gifts, and i wouldnt throw them out or give them away becasue thats just mean... and any chick that does that is a cow..... so maybe save the expensive gifts fo say... anniversaries or birthdays... i wouldnt go all out but i wouldnt go cheapo eiher








good luck





xx
Reply:They are sometimes right. If you are just dating her, dont because she could end up breaking up and you wasted all that money for nothing. However if the plan is to get more serious like possibly an engagement then i would say it isn%26#039;t wrong to get expensive gifts, but remember its not the price tag on the item but the amount o heart you put into it.
Reply:If you have been going out under six months a small gift is appropriate. Over 6 mths you are going to be expected to give a little more unless you are broke and she knows it. If you are under 18 and don%26#039;t have a job, a hand made gift is best.
Reply:it depends on nature of your relationship. that how you value your gift.
Reply:NEVER and i mean never buy anything expensize for a girl...she will take it for granted and expect more. I dont pay for anything for girls any more..i dont open doors. i dont buy flowers or jewerly or aniversity gifts...most ill spend on a date is $40 bucks...i look at it like this.....we have all heard some many times gilrs saying i would never have sex for money or sell myself like that... thats disgusting....but yet when you go out on a date...a guy picks her up . pays for the date...buys her flowers...all that stuff just to get in her pants at the end of the night...ME no thanks there are enough girls out there that just wanna f*ck. ill be damned if im going to pay for it
Reply:i agree..but u dun wanna show up being cheap if she%26#039;s hard to impress, why not medium priced gifts?
Reply:It depends


I am like 15 months with my girl


If I would have the money for it , I would buy something expensive.





What is real expensive but easy to get are memories


Take her somewhere special


Do something nice





Memories are priceless.


And can%26#039;t be given away



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