Monday, August 3, 2009

How should i present her with my Valentines gifts?

I'm getting this girl I like flowers, a stuffed animal, and a card for valetines day to seal the deal, to make our relationship official. I'm in highschool, so should i give them to her at school or sneek them in her car so when she leaves school she finds them? This question is directed towards women so i can the opinion of what would be most romantic to them.

How should i present her with my Valentines gifts?
Well it depends how brave you are. You can either give them to her when expected and the only surprise is what the gift actually is or you can surprise her after school. After school is more surprising but it's very risky. Depending on the girl, she could get really upset at the fact all you have to say is happy valentines day. Sad but true even if a girl says she doesn't like attention and to be showered with gifts, it's a lie. Think about it. All day long she is going to see other girls talking and gloating about what their special someone got them. I think you should do both. Give her everything you just talked about that morning but to be even a bigger sweetheart, fill her car with red and pink balloons and write how much you care for her all over her car. She will be so surprised and happy!! I know I was when my boyfirend did something like this for my birthday. All girls really want you to show is that you care and took the time to do something sweet! ;) Good luck!
Reply:put them in her car...she will go all day thinking you didnt get her anything and when schools out she will be so excited:)
Reply:definetly the car idea. it shows her you took the time to get up early and put them in her car. just make sure its unlocked or something and you dont have to break in!
Reply:I don't like either answer. I like to wait until she has gotten home. then I take them to her front door step and leave them in plain sight. Then, i ring the door bell and hide just out of plain sight. The surprise attack of something completely out of the norm is what girls really like. * Note* It is also very important if she thinks that you are going to get her something at school; do so. Just make it something small so as not to overshadow the cool plans for later!
Reply:Lame, Lame and Lame. High school you say? What your proposing sounds like jr. high. How about taking her to dinner (no not McDonalds). Does she really like stuffed animals? How about a gift card to a book store, clothes store, what ever she likes. I understand you probably make $20 a week but if this makes your relationship "official" your plans are not very exciting. You couldn't splurge for tickets to a concert? If this is as important as you say it is, you need to rethink what your doing.
Reply:From a guy's point of view, you need to take her out to dinner! When you go to pick her up, THAT'S when you give her the flowers! You can give her the bear at dinner just before the check arrives!





Why is this question in Marriage %26amp; Divorce and not Singles %26amp; Dating??
Reply:Leave them in her car! Let her cry and be happy in her car and not in the hallway! Sneak them in the car! Good luck!





When you say seal the deal, are you trying to get in her pants? If so, I hope she has enough respect for herself and your relationship to say no, and if you had respect for her you'd wait!
Reply:Don't give her something unless you know you are going to get "something" in return. The relationship ledger has to be balanced.



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