Monday, April 20, 2009

10 ways to steal a girls heart. Girls particape to!!?

found that special one. going on your first offical date? or wht about sparking up a conversation with her?


it%26#039;s all in the rule book: IT%26#039;S A GIRL THING





♥ flattery is key. always give your girl compliments. beautiful is more flattering than %26#039;hot%26#039; or sexy%26#039; remember that. a lot of girls with respect for themselves would actually be offended if you spoke such language to their face.





♥flowers%26amp;gifts. it%26#039;s not a ncesserary for a relationship, but it would sure help!!. nothing is more sweet%26amp; kind%26amp;romantic than flowers and chocalate. nothing to expensive. love has no cost. if you give a girl too many expensive gifts she will think of you as a gold digger, and use you for your money ONLY. don%26#039;t let that happen. and money certainly doesn%26#039;t buy happeniness





♥ NEVER TALK ABOUT SEX ON THE FIRST DATE. N-E-V-E-R. or the 2nd or the 3rd. um, yeah, don%26#039;t do it. that would actually drive most girls away. unless they are the easy type that only want a one night stand. i can%26#039;t stand horny people.

10 ways to steal a girls heart. Girls particape to!!?
I love lots of dancing %26amp; laughter. Or a date to just go walk a very beautiful trail. Pick a flower for her off the trail, that is so sweet. My husband gets me everytime with that.





The best one is when he gives me a longing look and I have to ask %26quot;what?%26quot; and he says %26quot;nothin, just looking at you becuase you are beautiful%26quot;. Awe, makes me want to just melt!
Reply:be flrity but not too flirty.. cater to her take her out to an expensive resturant or even cook something at home to show her your senestive side. but dont cry MAJOR TURN OFF. i know it sounds silly but i know guys who cry
Reply:give us hand wittn notes and really sweet poems we love that stuff
Reply:Whats your question??



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Women: In relationships, do you think men should be treated equally?

I know men supposed to treat their woman like she deserves the world he gives her. But do you think women gives the same in return. All I know is.....





Men are givers.


They give flowers, gifts, rings, etc. to their woman.





Women are receivers.


They receive flowers, gifts, rings, etc. from their man if he care and love her alot.





I%26#039;m a 22 year old male myself and I know some men can mess up alot when it comes to women. But do you think women should treat their man as good as their woman treat them? Thanks!

Women: In relationships, do you think men should be treated equally?
Should women? Yes, but lets look at this as an experiment in human economics vis a vis supply and demand. There is an abundant supply of females in the world (more than us guys anyway) However the demand for females exceeds the supply cause we are horny and greedy, a difficult combination. The supply of able and WILLING females for any one guy is much smaller than the reverse relationship, aka there are more willing and able guys, we%26#039;re just wired that way.





So, how do you solve this conundrum? Tip the odds in your favor by treating a girl like a queen. Give her small tokens of affection. Tell her she is beautiful. Listen to what she says and actually pay attention. Be caring and affectionate. Give her a nice backrub and don%26#039;t expect anything in return. If you turn out the full charm and treat her well, chances are you will have a nice ladyfriend.





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Reply:Stick with karrybelle99%26#039;s answer: she really seems to know her stuff!
Reply:Yes. Men should be treated equally in the sense of attention. We may no give them flowers or rings, but women must treat the men they love as he deserves.


The woman, loves the man, and the man may be the best thing that has happened to her.


So lavish the men with the attention they need. Some gifts should be nice too.
Reply:Yes, I believe women should treat men just as well as they want to be treated. It is only fair. Yeah, I know there are a lot of women who believe they should be treated like a princess and there are a lot of men who will do that but I personally believe spoiling those that you love and if I want someone to give something to me then I make sure I give it right back. Honestly, I%26#039;ve found men seem to appreciate it more when they are given gifts than women, which I believe is due to the fact that it is not expected. If you care about someone why not show it to them too (and it is not always about how expensive something is but the thought that goes into it). At least that is the way I feel.



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Women: In relastionships, do you think men should be treated equally?

I know men supposed to treat their woman like she deserves the world he gives her. But do you think women gives the same in return. All I know is.....





Men are givers.


They give flowers, gifts, rings, etc. to their woman.





Women are receivers.


They receive flowers, gifts, rings, etc. from their man if he care and love her alot.





I%26#039;m a 22 year old male myself and I know some men can mess up alot when it comes to women. But do you think women should treat their man as good as their woman treat them? Thanks!

Women: In relastionships, do you think men should be treated equally?
you know, I think its reallly good to show that you love your woman.. Lots of girls think that guys are just in it for sex, (a lot of them are) and a lot of woman dont want to believe that, but its true. Just always tell your girl that she is beautiful, and special, and you love her, and she will feel great.





On the gift side, i defentally think it should be equal. Just dont ever forget special days like vday and brithdays and so on. but dont ever give the other partner, a guilt trip if they dont get you something......thats just not kool.
Reply:Women don%26#039;t end to give gifts as such, they tend to be more affectionate and men give gifts usually to show their affection, as they don%26#039;t seem to have the tender side.



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Second date question?

I am now in the dating scene again after being in a 10 year marriage and sort of forget how to date (court) someone again. I know it sounds silly, but it%26#039;s true. What is the proper for a second date (as far as flowers/gifts) We%26#039;ve already decided we are %26quot;seeing%26quot; each other. She and I both have talked about the fact that we are %26quot;perfect%26quot; for each other... so I want to do this right...





Should I bring a flower or flowers? Gift?





For our second date we will go to dinner and a movie.





We%26#039;re both in our 30s if that makes a difference as far as etiquette is concerned?





Also, is holding hands proper on a second date? I seriously forget LOL I didn%26#039;t think I would either....





Thanks in advance.

Second date question?
Bring her a pink rose, hold her hand or put your arm around her shoulder when you%26#039;re walking. Touch her hair. Take it slow, there is no rush. Just be yourself. Complement her. If and when you want to kiss her, ask her if it%26#039;s ok first, don%26#039;t just move in on her. Good luck and thanks for asking. Thats more than I can say for most men. You sound like a nice guy!
Reply:Go with your gut on the flowers.


Take it slow but steady, be your best but true self and most importantly Have FUN


Being kind, polite is alway in vogue. The particulars of what you do is up to you.





What will be will be.
Reply:depending what kind of girl she is, nothing at all would be fine. but if you want to earn brownie points, then yes, a flower would be nice! if she likes pretty things and needs a lot, then buy flowers, but if she is down to earth, just one will do.





also, holding hands is timeless. it doesn%26#039;t really matter when you do it, as long as you both feel comfortable. why don%26#039;t you try touching her hand, or try holding it. if she hold your hand back, then great! if she pulls away, just realize that she%26#039;s not ready and that you should wait a little while longer. and, think about ending the date with a kiss on the cheek. depending on how close you two are, and how the date goes.





best of luck to you!
Reply:boy are you rusty or what? well try this first date flowers, women love flowers. Second date dinner and flowers, holding hands is fine from the first date (worked for me) don%26#039;t push the issue taking a walk is good drive out some where this all depends on what your date likes good luck
Reply:Flowers is fine.. so it a bottle of wine!


Holding hands... at the age of 30??? U should be on second or third base on your second date!



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Should the guy always pay on dates?

This might sound dumb, but...





When I date a girl, I tend to pay for EVERYTHING. And I like paying...





Especially on the first date, I could never imagine expecting a woman to pay, or split the check...





I think I always pay fo things and shower women with gifts and flowers because...





(1) I%26#039;d feel weird if they paid





(2) I think I have low self-confidence.





I%26#039;d say I%26#039;m a good-looking guy and I know how to treat a woman, but something in my past has caused me to feel that I need to %26quot;pay%26quot; and create big %26quot;surprises%26quot; and buy them %26quot;Flowers %26amp; gifts%26quot; to keep them around.





I know that women like a challenge and a guy that pays for EVERYTHING and gives gifts is NOT a challenge.





I%26#039;d like some advice on all of this, but I also don%26#039;t want to get used to changing my style too much because if I date someone for long enough, I don;t want to turn into a jerk who%26#039;s fogotten how to bring flowers, or give a special gift %26quot;on occasion%26quot;.





Any good advice? I%26#039;m working on the confidence.

Should the guy always pay on dates?
Who ever asks for the first date should pay for everything on that date for sure. Neither should pay for everything ALL the time.


You do not need to constantly %26quot;pay%26quot; and come up with %26quot;big surprises%26quot; all the time.


Flowers and gifts do not keep someone around unless they are a gold digger.


Going overboard on such things makes you look desperate and can get creepy. Women feel like you are trying to buy them and make them feel obligated to stay with you - not a good thing.


Gifts and flowers are fine when done in MODERATION and after the relationship has progressed some. Too much, too soon=realtionship failure, do not go overboard, do not judge present or potential future relationships from the past, women are different.


Treating a woman well, respecting her on every level, including giving her her space at times means a lot more than just constantly spending money to try to impress.
Reply:I think that it%26#039;s really up to you about what you feel comfortable with and what she feels comfortable with. If she lets you pay without too much protest, then I think it%26#039;s fine for you to pay. But, if she really insists that she pay, then you need to let her sometimes. Otherwise, you%26#039;ll be making her uncomfortable. And, you don%26#039;t want that.





The one exception to this, in my book, is the first date. I think that the guy should always pay, simply because then it sends the signal that this is a romantic interest, not just friends.





I don%26#039;t think a guy who pays or brings flowers is %26quot;not a challenge%26quot;. I think he%26#039;s a gentleman! The only thing is that you don%26#039;t want to come on too strong on the beginning. Don%26#039;t scare them off by bringing multiple gifts / flowers during the beginning stages. Just my two cents.
Reply:I used to believe in a guy always paying. I have now come to the conclusion, after being on a handful of dates w/girls who pretty much looked at it as a %26#039;free meal%26#039; etc... I%26#039;m more gunshy of paying. At least all the time. I now tend to look at it more like a %26#039;whoever asks someone out should pay%26#039; situation.



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What can we buy our mums as a gift on our wedding day as we are marrying abroad so can't get away with flowers

marrying in cyprus, neither mum wears jewellery and we have to pack it so we have a weight limit!

What can we buy our mums as a gift on our wedding day as we are marrying abroad so can%26#039;t get away with flowers
There are lots of great florists in Cyprus so if you still want to give them flowers, you could make arrangements when you arrive there. I%26#039;m sure whomever is helping you to organise your wedding could recommend a local florist or the desk staff at your hotel would be happy to help you order them.
Reply:dinner gift certificates to a nice restaurant
Reply:I don%26#039;t know the logistics of cost, but some firms like interflora have reciprocal arrangements with their foreign counterparts, and you can have flowers sent in the same manner as you can in the UK. If you are from outside the UK, I would imagine that the same arrangement exists.
Reply:Hm. A small gold charm that states, %26quot;I love you Mom%26quot; %26lt;I%26#039;ve seen them and they aren%26#039;t too expensive...that they could wear on charm bracelet or necklace...maybe even a nicely composed letter on how much these women have meant in your lives and continue to mean on keepsake stationery...something they might read over and over again or keep in a cherished place? A small book of poetry targeted for mother%26#039;s from their children with positive sayings...the possibilities are endless really.





Congratulations! May you live happily ever after...





Grace
Reply:Here%26#039;s something creative that will be appreciated and you will have fun doing:





Make up a crossword puzzle and have all the hints be personal inside moments and jokes that only you two, your fiance, and wedding planners would know about. Put it on a poster board and add some clipart and some pictures to it!





The crossword puzzle could be time consuming and a bit frustrating ... you could do the same idea with a WORDSEARCH or WORDFIND puzzle.





Put your computer skills to work! Use Excel, get clipart from Yahoo Images Search, copy them, and reformat them, use a gluestick to put on posterboard.





Use graph paper, and pictures from magazines if you are not as good on the computer, and it will give it a homemade feeling.





This is a really beautiful poem too!


Women have strengths that amaze us.


They carry children, they carry hardships, they carry burdens but they hold happiness, love and joy.


They smile when they want to scream.


They sing when they want to cry.


They cry when they are happy and laugh when they are nervous.


They fight for what they believe in.


They stand up for injustice.


They don%26#039;t take %26quot;no%26quot; for an answer when they believe there is a better solution.


They go without new shoes so their children can have them.


They go to the doctor with a frightened friend.


They love unconditionally.


They cry when their children excel and cheer when their friends get awards.


They are happy when they hear about a birth or a new marriage. Their hearts break when a friend dies.


They have sorrow at the loss of a family member, yet they are strong when they think there is no strength left.


They know that a hug and a kiss can heal a broken heart.


Women come in all sizes, in all colors and shapes.


They%26#039;ll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you to show how much they care about you.


The heart of a woman is what makes the world spin!


Women do more than just give birth.


They bring joy and hope.


They give compassion and ideals.


They give moral support to their family and friends.


Women have a lot to say and a lot to give.











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Reply:each of you write a poem to you mum and have them framed.
Reply:Buy your mums a fancy handkerchief, maybe you can get them embroidered with the word %26quot;Mother%26quot; on them and include this poem written on fine paper.





For the brides mother:





Dear Mom:





You%26#039;ve always been so good to me


through all my growing years.


You%26#039;ve been there for the happy times


and wiped away my tears.





And not that I am all grown up


about to be a bride


I couldn%26#039;t have made it to this point


without you by my side.





So, for my happy wedding day


This hankie is for you,


A keepsake you can carry on


The day I say, %26quot;I do.%26quot;





For though I%26#039;ll start a brand new life,


One thing is always true,


There%26#039;s nothing that could ever change


My special love for you.





Thank You Mom.





For Groom%26#039;s Mother:





Dear Mom:





You%26#039;ve always been so good to me


through all my growing years.


You%26#039;ve been there for the happy times


and wiped away my tears.





And not that I am all grown up


about to take a bride


I couldn%26#039;t have made it to this point


without you by my side.





So, for my happy wedding day


This hankie is for you,


A keepsake you can carry on


The day I say, %26quot;I do.%26quot;





For though I%26#039;ll start a brand new life,


One thing is always true,


There%26#039;s nothing that could ever change


My special love for you.





Thank You Mom.





Light weight, easy to pack, and guaranteed to bring a smile and a tear as they reminisce about the years they cared for you both. I know, I received one from my daughter on her wedding day.





Good luck and a lifetime of happiness to you both!



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What is a good idea for a gift to a women. are fluffy toys i.e teddys cool or should i be thinking flowers?

Fluffy toys are for children, and even then they wouldn%26#039;t really be welcome in my house. Flowers can be equally naff unless they are simple (roses), or unusual. It all depends on the woman in question - we aren%26#039;t all the same you know. I%26#039;d love to receive a poetry book, but my best friend would love nothing more than the latest Black and Decker drill bit. However, if you barely know her, a bunch of cream coloured roses would probably do fine. And don%26#039;t expect anything back!

What is a good idea for a gift to a women. are fluffy toys i.e teddys cool or should i be thinking flowers?
Flowers with an attached teddy or stuffed animal is always good. If its a more serious relationship jewelry is the best way to go.
Reply:chocolate and jewelery are so basic and the same, fluffy toys are so sweet and show a bit of thought and is a nice touch really.
Reply:women love flowers, jellewery especially diamonds, cute teddys and chocolate.
Reply:If my husband bought me a cuddly toy I%26#039;d ram it down his throat! Play safe and stick the the flowers.
Reply:hi flowers and teddys are always good especially given together,
Reply:Depends what relationship you have with the woman in question.


Is she your wife?


Girlfriend?


Potential girlfriend?


Someone you have just met?


Someone you have known for ages?





It totally depends on your current relationship with her and how far you wish to take that relationship if at all anywhere.





Presumably it is a woman you are either courting or one that actually if your girlfriend/ wife, I would say flowers is to obvious a choice as would a box of chocolates be.


Try and pick something unique and buy it with her in mind and if you are really struggling for ideas try and ask her without actually asking her forthright, try and get hints from her.





One thing to remember though is do not buy her something that is mainly for your benefit, so i would avoid buying her sexy clothes, just in case she takes offense (plus guys have this habit of getting the wrong size anyway. lol)



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