I've had a thing for this girl that I work with for a while, and finally this summer we went out. Our first date I brought her out flyfishing on a trout stream, we had a beautiful time, and nothing romantic happened. After this, we exchanged some heavy e-mails and went out a few times for dinner, but nothing happened because we are both too busy for a relationship. Then I sent an e-mail telling her I wanted to be more than freinds, and she told me that she has been weighing her options and has no time for a relationship. Now she is kind of distant with me at work. Neither of us has the time, I play in a band and go to school and work full-time, and she is a ballet instructor/dancer, but I have to see her every day at work and she's too darn cute for me to ignore....it's driving me crazy and I don't know what to do. Should I try to send her flowers/gifts and let her know that some day when we have more time I want to hook up, or just forget about her? I may have to quit my job..
So I work with this girl.......?
And that's why you shouldn't date people you have a lot of contact with at work!
What are you going to do, harass her? You'll get fired before you can quit.
Forget about her; she probably has herpes or something.
Reply:well i think u need to choose what u want.... cause if u are willing to give things up for her go for it.... like its always good to get the girl u love
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Saturday, July 25, 2009
Ladies , arent men better lovers than you?
we men have lots of testostseron very far more than women , that means we have far more desire and interest in sex and in the opposite sex
we men are very far visual , we love to see our lover and we love to see the opposite sex body and turned on bby that but women dont
we men are more emotional than women ( not as women always say to cover thier sexual desire shortage) we love more deep, we who give flowers, gifts ,we who kneel and kiss hands and feet , we who make poem....etc
we men have lots of fetishes to the opposite sex , we love women's clothes , underwear,shoses,feet,hands,breasts....e... but women dont
we are visual emotional physical creatures
so arent we better lovers than you?
Ladies , arent men better lovers than you?
men are the best and if you think differnet email me at aldermanf2@yahoo.com
Reply:Not necessarily, who says you are the only ones that send flowers, write poems, etc? Women can be very passionate as some men are not, not all men are emotional, good lovers or romantic (as well as other things). When it comes to feelings everyone is different. For every woman that you find that is not you will also find a man that isn't.
Reply:the guy u mentioned are extinct.......fewer men are like that......
Reply:Hate to disagree with you but most men are not like that and aren't even close to being as passionate as women
Reply:O hogwash!!
Reply:i disagree. sorry. women are definitely more emotional. men tend to keep it all bottled up inside them. women let it out. women love deeper, because we aren't usually the ones breaking the relationship up, and we usually aren't the ones to cheat on our lovers. even though men bring women roses, where do you think they got the idea that women like roses? duh, women... women also write poems about and to their lovers, but don't send them because they think that thier men will never understand because he could never love that deeply. and just think how wierd it would be for a woman to buy you roses and drive you places and open the door for you when you want to get out of your car and ask you out and ask you to dance...
i could probably keep going, but i don't have three hours to waste on one question...
PS if you can be like your example up above, perhaps you are a better lover than women. WIll you go out with me? lol!
loan
we men are very far visual , we love to see our lover and we love to see the opposite sex body and turned on bby that but women dont
we men are more emotional than women ( not as women always say to cover thier sexual desire shortage) we love more deep, we who give flowers, gifts ,we who kneel and kiss hands and feet , we who make poem....etc
we men have lots of fetishes to the opposite sex , we love women's clothes , underwear,shoses,feet,hands,breasts....e... but women dont
we are visual emotional physical creatures
so arent we better lovers than you?
Ladies , arent men better lovers than you?
men are the best and if you think differnet email me at aldermanf2@yahoo.com
Reply:Not necessarily, who says you are the only ones that send flowers, write poems, etc? Women can be very passionate as some men are not, not all men are emotional, good lovers or romantic (as well as other things). When it comes to feelings everyone is different. For every woman that you find that is not you will also find a man that isn't.
Reply:the guy u mentioned are extinct.......fewer men are like that......
Reply:Hate to disagree with you but most men are not like that and aren't even close to being as passionate as women
Reply:O hogwash!!
Reply:i disagree. sorry. women are definitely more emotional. men tend to keep it all bottled up inside them. women let it out. women love deeper, because we aren't usually the ones breaking the relationship up, and we usually aren't the ones to cheat on our lovers. even though men bring women roses, where do you think they got the idea that women like roses? duh, women... women also write poems about and to their lovers, but don't send them because they think that thier men will never understand because he could never love that deeply. and just think how wierd it would be for a woman to buy you roses and drive you places and open the door for you when you want to get out of your car and ask you out and ask you to dance...
i could probably keep going, but i don't have three hours to waste on one question...
PS if you can be like your example up above, perhaps you are a better lover than women. WIll you go out with me? lol!
loan
What are some sweet things i can do for my girlfriend to show her i love her or im thinking about her?
OK flowers, gifts, and taking her to dinner, and text messages and emails are all things i have done in the past. I need fresh ideas! What can i do to show her my feelings
What are some sweet things i can do for my girlfriend to show her i love her or im thinking about her?
leave little notes in places you know she will look. surprise her @ work with lunch (if shes in hs take her lunch)
those are some ideas...hope that helps a lil
that is so sweet of you to do things like that for you GF! dont ever stop!
Reply:cook her fav food
Reply:if you are near her leave a note on her car after work or something. Send her a love note thru snail mail (even if you live together). Take her shopping, COOK her dinner, invite her parents to dinner, get a pet together. etc.
Ur girl is lucky to have you!
Reply:send her text messages in another language. my bf is from India and i send him msgs sometimes in his language. he thinks this is crazy sweet b/c i don't know a word of Hindi so he know i put time and effort into looking up the correct spellings and translations.
try also leaving short sweet notes in her pocket before she gets to work. how about leaving a short msg for her in the local newspaper. I've heard its around 20.00 dollars depending how long you make it.
Reply:Do something that seems "strange" but equals to sweet. I saw on this television show that a guy bought his girl friend a letter opener.. She looked at it and was like.. what the heck... but then he explained to her... That for the rest of his life he would write her a letter at the end of the year telling her how much he loved her and she would open all the letters with that letter opener... Maybe you should take her somewhere she has never been... Do something for her that you have never done before... Show her you really care and aren't afraid for the world to know... But be original your past tactics are kind of... Useddd up. Good luck you sound like a great guy
Reply:why don't you surprise her with a romantic picnic in a park, or on the beach at sunset (i don't know if you are by the water or not but it's an idea)! also, maybe a romatic weekend away somewhere... just get in the car and don't tell her where you're going. you could also cook her a nice dinner.
Reply:Leave her sticky notes "thinking of you", "I miss you", can't wait to _____ you" in places where she would find them.
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What are some sweet things i can do for my girlfriend to show her i love her or im thinking about her?
leave little notes in places you know she will look. surprise her @ work with lunch (if shes in hs take her lunch)
those are some ideas...hope that helps a lil
that is so sweet of you to do things like that for you GF! dont ever stop!
Reply:cook her fav food
Reply:if you are near her leave a note on her car after work or something. Send her a love note thru snail mail (even if you live together). Take her shopping, COOK her dinner, invite her parents to dinner, get a pet together. etc.
Ur girl is lucky to have you!
Reply:send her text messages in another language. my bf is from India and i send him msgs sometimes in his language. he thinks this is crazy sweet b/c i don't know a word of Hindi so he know i put time and effort into looking up the correct spellings and translations.
try also leaving short sweet notes in her pocket before she gets to work. how about leaving a short msg for her in the local newspaper. I've heard its around 20.00 dollars depending how long you make it.
Reply:Do something that seems "strange" but equals to sweet. I saw on this television show that a guy bought his girl friend a letter opener.. She looked at it and was like.. what the heck... but then he explained to her... That for the rest of his life he would write her a letter at the end of the year telling her how much he loved her and she would open all the letters with that letter opener... Maybe you should take her somewhere she has never been... Do something for her that you have never done before... Show her you really care and aren't afraid for the world to know... But be original your past tactics are kind of... Useddd up. Good luck you sound like a great guy
Reply:why don't you surprise her with a romantic picnic in a park, or on the beach at sunset (i don't know if you are by the water or not but it's an idea)! also, maybe a romatic weekend away somewhere... just get in the car and don't tell her where you're going. you could also cook her a nice dinner.
Reply:Leave her sticky notes "thinking of you", "I miss you", can't wait to _____ you" in places where she would find them.
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Help - Am I in a controlling, abusive relationship?! Please advise me...?
I met this guy a year ago, and he seemed so lovely and bought me flowers, gifts etc. Was so loving and I fell for him and we got together... Now he has changed.
I was warned about him when I first got with him, but I thought he seemed genuine. His ex who my sister in law happened to know, told my at the time best mate that it was the worst relationship she had ever been in - told her what to do, what to wear, etc. I didn't believe her, just thought it was her, but now...
Some of the things he does, like he lies a lot, makes things up like what he's supposedly done in his life, lies about so much that he believes it. He has at times tried to tell me not to show my cleavage. He loses his temper so quick and starts over nothing and blames it on me. I was 5min late for dinner once and he started on me even though it weren't my fault. Get's jealous over my guy mates, will get angry if I don't pick up my phone... I once slapped him cos he upset me so much and I felt he was constantly...
Help - Am I in a controlling, abusive relationship?! Please advise me...?
OMG! You are suck a classic abused woman it is scary!!
First ask yourself is this "normal" If you answer yes then run don't walk to the nearest psych ward and check yourself in.
This guy is dirt and he is playing this wicked and hurtful game with you. DO NOT ALLOW IT!! You are strong beautiful and awesome girl and deserve so much more then this. Your friends and family are probably thinking you are an idiot, prove them wrong! This guy calls you back tell him you are no longer interested and please do not contact me anymore. Remember he has you in a psychological strong hold so you are vulnerable.... BE STRONG GIRL!!!
I am rooting for you!!!
Reply:OMG pleae get out of that realtionship. Its not good for you. You are even doubting yourself. You need to get out and get out now before he hurts you even worse.
Reply:get a gun.
Reply:maybe you do need this break you should write to him to let him know how you feel towards this let him realize what he has and what he's going to lose if he keeps it up...
but the real questions are.. do you truly love him, and is his temper and jealous worth putting up with..
in the mean time make sure some one knows about this in case it gets worse..
Reply:I was reading about "battered woman" last night. All the things you said are described in that article I read. Battered woman is someone who does not leave a relationship because she thinks it's her fault and she deserved the abuse as punishment. And you do not want to be a battered woman! Seriously.. I think you are an intelligent girl.. Please leave the relationship.. Change your phone number.. Stay with family and do not leave the house alone.. Always take someone with you until everything cools off. Good Luck :)
Reply:I don't get it...it sounds like you are saying you already ended it...so just don't go back to him. If you are afraid of what he will do now that you have broken up with him...let your friends and family know your situation and make sure you aren't alone for awhile. No one deserves to be in a relationship like that...take some time to get to know yourself and what you want and then you will be ready to start a relationship with someone who treats you with respect.
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I was warned about him when I first got with him, but I thought he seemed genuine. His ex who my sister in law happened to know, told my at the time best mate that it was the worst relationship she had ever been in - told her what to do, what to wear, etc. I didn't believe her, just thought it was her, but now...
Some of the things he does, like he lies a lot, makes things up like what he's supposedly done in his life, lies about so much that he believes it. He has at times tried to tell me not to show my cleavage. He loses his temper so quick and starts over nothing and blames it on me. I was 5min late for dinner once and he started on me even though it weren't my fault. Get's jealous over my guy mates, will get angry if I don't pick up my phone... I once slapped him cos he upset me so much and I felt he was constantly...
Help - Am I in a controlling, abusive relationship?! Please advise me...?
OMG! You are suck a classic abused woman it is scary!!
First ask yourself is this "normal" If you answer yes then run don't walk to the nearest psych ward and check yourself in.
This guy is dirt and he is playing this wicked and hurtful game with you. DO NOT ALLOW IT!! You are strong beautiful and awesome girl and deserve so much more then this. Your friends and family are probably thinking you are an idiot, prove them wrong! This guy calls you back tell him you are no longer interested and please do not contact me anymore. Remember he has you in a psychological strong hold so you are vulnerable.... BE STRONG GIRL!!!
I am rooting for you!!!
Reply:OMG pleae get out of that realtionship. Its not good for you. You are even doubting yourself. You need to get out and get out now before he hurts you even worse.
Reply:get a gun.
Reply:maybe you do need this break you should write to him to let him know how you feel towards this let him realize what he has and what he's going to lose if he keeps it up...
but the real questions are.. do you truly love him, and is his temper and jealous worth putting up with..
in the mean time make sure some one knows about this in case it gets worse..
Reply:I was reading about "battered woman" last night. All the things you said are described in that article I read. Battered woman is someone who does not leave a relationship because she thinks it's her fault and she deserved the abuse as punishment. And you do not want to be a battered woman! Seriously.. I think you are an intelligent girl.. Please leave the relationship.. Change your phone number.. Stay with family and do not leave the house alone.. Always take someone with you until everything cools off. Good Luck :)
Reply:I don't get it...it sounds like you are saying you already ended it...so just don't go back to him. If you are afraid of what he will do now that you have broken up with him...let your friends and family know your situation and make sure you aren't alone for awhile. No one deserves to be in a relationship like that...take some time to get to know yourself and what you want and then you will be ready to start a relationship with someone who treats you with respect.
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Monday, April 20, 2009
This guy wont leave me alone! Imma lesbian!?
I recently started seeing a new woman, and her older brother%26#039;s friend is driving me insane!! Asking me out, buying me flowers %26amp; gifts--the guy wont stop! He is well aware that I%26#039;m with his friends sister, we%26#039;ve kissed in front of him! How do i get him to stop??
This guy wont leave me alone! Imma lesbian!?
Tell him flat out that while you%26#039;re flattered and all, you aren%26#039;t into guys, have never been into guys and will never be into guys and to please stop becuase he%26#039;s making you and your girlfriend uncomfortable.
Reply:Is he aware that you are in a relationship with his friends sister? and not to sound icky or anything but some people think that your kiss the person you%26#039;re involved with to impress them. You need to make it clear to him that you are not attracted to him, and that you are in a relationship, and that you have no intention of ever being involved with him. Basically be brutal. But don%26#039;t put your self in danger. If he still doesn%26#039;t leave you alone, try talking to some one, that you can trust.
Reply:Ignore him, period. He will stop once he sees that you have a life and pay him no attention. But, if you keep saying no, then he will keep at you. Kisses to you, Im gay, rather cute, and I get girls hitting on me all the time. I have no interest in them, but they see me and want to conquer. Yes, I am honored that they think I am cute, but I have never been interested in girls.
Reply:Tell him if you were straight. Buying love isn%26#039;t your thing. And trying to earn it, he doesn%26#039;t stand a change. Tell him its guys like him, if you wasn%26#039;t gay he would be the one who would drive you to be gay.
Reply:the best thing to do is to tell the guy that he%26#039;s not your kind and still if he doesn%26#039;t listen then you should make out with a girl.....
Reply:talk to him and tell him that you dont like him like that and your with someone that you care about.
Reply:Remind him that what he%26#039;s doing is sexual harrassment and tell him if he continues you%26#039;ll take legal action. Then do it if need be
Reply:tell him again that you%26#039;re lesbo and tell him that if he doesn%26#039;t stop, you will do something.
Reply:What they said.
And if that don%26#039;t work, kick him in the family jewels.
Reply:tell him to fxkk off.
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This guy wont leave me alone! Imma lesbian!?
Tell him flat out that while you%26#039;re flattered and all, you aren%26#039;t into guys, have never been into guys and will never be into guys and to please stop becuase he%26#039;s making you and your girlfriend uncomfortable.
Reply:Is he aware that you are in a relationship with his friends sister? and not to sound icky or anything but some people think that your kiss the person you%26#039;re involved with to impress them. You need to make it clear to him that you are not attracted to him, and that you are in a relationship, and that you have no intention of ever being involved with him. Basically be brutal. But don%26#039;t put your self in danger. If he still doesn%26#039;t leave you alone, try talking to some one, that you can trust.
Reply:Ignore him, period. He will stop once he sees that you have a life and pay him no attention. But, if you keep saying no, then he will keep at you. Kisses to you, Im gay, rather cute, and I get girls hitting on me all the time. I have no interest in them, but they see me and want to conquer. Yes, I am honored that they think I am cute, but I have never been interested in girls.
Reply:Tell him if you were straight. Buying love isn%26#039;t your thing. And trying to earn it, he doesn%26#039;t stand a change. Tell him its guys like him, if you wasn%26#039;t gay he would be the one who would drive you to be gay.
Reply:the best thing to do is to tell the guy that he%26#039;s not your kind and still if he doesn%26#039;t listen then you should make out with a girl.....
Reply:talk to him and tell him that you dont like him like that and your with someone that you care about.
Reply:Remind him that what he%26#039;s doing is sexual harrassment and tell him if he continues you%26#039;ll take legal action. Then do it if need be
Reply:tell him again that you%26#039;re lesbo and tell him that if he doesn%26#039;t stop, you will do something.
Reply:What they said.
And if that don%26#039;t work, kick him in the family jewels.
Reply:tell him to fxkk off.
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Am I victimizing myself? I moved to the us for the first time 8 months ago from Eastern Europe.....?
My family never had a lot of money, we never had a car so nobody in my family could drive.In 2oo6,after graduating from high school,I got engaged and moved out a few weeks before having to start college.Got married and that brought me to the US(spring,last year).Things are falling apart for me though since my husband tells me I am too dependent on him(I am 20)and that turns him off all the time.I only got my driver%26#039;s permit, I am a bit scared to drive,I had a job, but quit because of emotional instability,all our problems would make me cry every day.Our intimacy level is very low,haven%26#039;t made love in 4 months.He just puts it all on this whole dependence thing.on the flip side,he watches porn,flirts online with women or gay men,would much rather look at cars and motorcycles instead of spending any time with me :( I%26#039;ve got no self confidence left.He buys me flowers,gifts, perfumes.. there%26#039;s just nothing physical between us.Plus I was a virgin when we met.Isn%26#039;t that ironic!?
Am I victimizing myself? I moved to the us for the first time 8 months ago from Eastern Europe.....?
Which country in Eastern Europe did you come from? Is your husband from there too?
Reply:I think you are victimizing yourself
Your husband just wants you to stop acting like a KID, and
grow up
Get a job or go to college if he can afford it,
GIVE the man sex at least everyother DAy,
BJ%26#039;s men love those more than sex
get a life, DON%26quot;T live for HIM, live for you
COOK AND CLEAN the house,
that is what MANY husbands like
M
Reply:Your husband sounds like the man I married at 19, someone who was never into sex (although he was handsome and only 22 himself). I always suspected he was gay. Some men are just not wired right in the brain and prefer porn to a real woman, but if he%26#039;s talking with gay guys online that%26#039;s a huge indication that he%26#039;s gay himself. Any decent guy who loved you would be there for you to guide you into life in this country and would love to help you! You do NOT need to put up with his emotional abuse/absence. Leave him and find a real man who is straight and will love you like you deserve to be loved!
Reply:you should pick yur inner strenght and go out there with confidence and not rely on your other half too much.
try to make friends by going to gym / group activities.
try keeping yourself fit and looking good .
wish you luck
Reply:Maybe you%26#039;re not doing anything to help yourself to survive. Maybe he is feeling the same thing too.
Reply:He is no good SOB I suggest you going back home to your family for a while and see how he reacts being single again.
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Am I victimizing myself? I moved to the us for the first time 8 months ago from Eastern Europe.....?
Which country in Eastern Europe did you come from? Is your husband from there too?
Reply:I think you are victimizing yourself
Your husband just wants you to stop acting like a KID, and
grow up
Get a job or go to college if he can afford it,
GIVE the man sex at least everyother DAy,
BJ%26#039;s men love those more than sex
get a life, DON%26quot;T live for HIM, live for you
COOK AND CLEAN the house,
that is what MANY husbands like
M
Reply:Your husband sounds like the man I married at 19, someone who was never into sex (although he was handsome and only 22 himself). I always suspected he was gay. Some men are just not wired right in the brain and prefer porn to a real woman, but if he%26#039;s talking with gay guys online that%26#039;s a huge indication that he%26#039;s gay himself. Any decent guy who loved you would be there for you to guide you into life in this country and would love to help you! You do NOT need to put up with his emotional abuse/absence. Leave him and find a real man who is straight and will love you like you deserve to be loved!
Reply:you should pick yur inner strenght and go out there with confidence and not rely on your other half too much.
try to make friends by going to gym / group activities.
try keeping yourself fit and looking good .
wish you luck
Reply:Maybe you%26#039;re not doing anything to help yourself to survive. Maybe he is feeling the same thing too.
Reply:He is no good SOB I suggest you going back home to your family for a while and see how he reacts being single again.
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Is man lower creature than woman?
-we get horney by seeing them naked but they dont ( we get horney by just see thier legs)
- we kiss and lick thier feet but they dont
- we look at them in streets , malls ,beaches but they dont
-we love the faster deeper , we who kneel , give flowers,gifts,make poem....etc but they dont unlike some women say they are more emotional we are far more emotional
-we think about se more , masturbate more, horney more than them
-they wear sexy hot clothes to stimulate them by thier bodies but we cant do that
-we get horney by hearing a woman%26#039;s soft voice but they dont
- we are hairy , muscular and not attractive like them
we get so excited by touching not only visually unlike some say that women are more turned on by touching , just if a man and a woman sticks to gether in a bus for example he will be so horney but she will be o angry
-researches say hat women have bisexual patern %26amp; excited by both sexes ( man is not the only creature turn woman on)
Is man lower creature than woman?
Women and Men are equal footing no one is inferior except in believing in what you have written previously. Differences in innate and naturally for them to be one and united in terms of love and passion not lusting methods otherwise, life would be a wild mess and rules of the forest would have the upper hands!
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- we kiss and lick thier feet but they dont
- we look at them in streets , malls ,beaches but they dont
-we love the faster deeper , we who kneel , give flowers,gifts,make poem....etc but they dont unlike some women say they are more emotional we are far more emotional
-we think about se more , masturbate more, horney more than them
-they wear sexy hot clothes to stimulate them by thier bodies but we cant do that
-we get horney by hearing a woman%26#039;s soft voice but they dont
- we are hairy , muscular and not attractive like them
we get so excited by touching not only visually unlike some say that women are more turned on by touching , just if a man and a woman sticks to gether in a bus for example he will be so horney but she will be o angry
-researches say hat women have bisexual patern %26amp; excited by both sexes ( man is not the only creature turn woman on)
Is man lower creature than woman?
Women and Men are equal footing no one is inferior except in believing in what you have written previously. Differences in innate and naturally for them to be one and united in terms of love and passion not lusting methods otherwise, life would be a wild mess and rules of the forest would have the upper hands!
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